What’s
the right thing to do when you are acquainted with someone who finds himself living in a tent
at almost sixty years of age? Do you invite him to come to live with you
knowing that’s not what you want and it wouldn't work for him either? Do you help him try to solve his housing
problem? Do you give him money? Do you know that giving him money, when he is without employment, isn’t going to fix what led him down the treacherous path.
He moved
to Salt Spring in 2005 or 2006. He worked at a variety of places before he
remained with an employer and worked consistently for about three years. He
didn’t make much money. He lived on a boat. He became very depressed. Mentally
and emotionally, he couldn’t return to that job. In a very long story, mostly
related to depression and his way of being, he lost the boat he lived on. He then managed
to find a rental for $400 per month. He was receiving EI and that ended. He was
evicted. He was given a two-person tent and has now set that up
on a wooded property offered through the empathy of a young couple in the community. His TV set is now situated beside the campfire. There's a new site called ShareSpring that describes itself as community crowd funding for Business, Organizations and Personal Causes. The giving is dedicated to the Salt Spring community and projects and people that live there. As it says on the website, ShareSpring is a project of Virtuous Circle Social Venture Corporation, a company incorporated in British Columbia, and owned by Michael Contardi, a Salt Spring resident. Ky Fox provides video and video editing support.
Most
recently, the community stepped up through ShareSpring when Kilaya Singh, a three-year old
girl, was killed during a tragic car accident on the Fulford-Ganges Road. Sharespring
sprang into action and the community, near and far, raised funds for her family
and for the driver of the van involved in the crash. It would have been easy to say, well, one or both people were driving at inappropriate speeds for the road conditions, and then, to do nothing. Instead, there was an outpouring of compassion and dollars.
There’s a new restaurant
called The Gathering Place. Helping it with start-up was a project. The
abattoir which is so vital to those who are raising animals, making it so that
the butchering and all that entails of selling meat locally is more economical
and feasible is a ShareSpring project.
The description on the site about what it supports also mentions “personal causes”.
This friend’s current state could be a personal cause. He has lived on Salt Spring for more than seven years. It’s easy to think, well, that’s his problem. He got himself into that situation, he’ll have to figure out how to get himself out. I mean, it’s not like he’s twenty-something.
The description on the site about what it supports also mentions “personal causes”.
This friend’s current state could be a personal cause. He has lived on Salt Spring for more than seven years. It’s easy to think, well, that’s his problem. He got himself into that situation, he’ll have to figure out how to get himself out. I mean, it’s not like he’s twenty-something.
But, at
what point is that distancing just not good enough. It’s too easy. Especially
given that something could be done if people came together to help. He could be
offered a helping hand to get back on his feet. There’s a place for everyone
and the “right place” where he can contribute and continue to live on Salt
Spring can surely be found.
It’s so
easy to take the self-righteous road. But when there’s a crisis, regardless of
how it came to be, what’s the virtue in judgement? What does that solve for this
man? Do you think that this idea is a good one or way off base? I’d be curious
to know. What would you suggest?